hey guys. so my partner of a few years keeps on pushing for me to be more dom for them. it used to be that he’d ask every once in awhile now it’s all the time and the answer is almost always the same: no. every so often i’ll put on a show for him and try to force myself into that role but it isn’t me. once like every 6-8 months my hormones will kick in and be like sure this is alright but other than that?? im incredibly adverse to it and i’d rather not have sex than be dom. i’m incredibly subby. like “my life is completely in your hands” subby. physically, mentally, spiritually, im a little sub that just wants to be taken care of sexually and in life. but he wants to be sub too and keeps getting upset with me, saying it’s not fair. im up front with my sexual preferences and have always said im very submissive. he’d grumble in the past when i wouldn’t let in to new kinks but he’s really hooked on this and i don’t know that to do. im just a little baby :(