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It's been about a year since we are together. The problem is the girl is a Muslim and she was not ok with sharing her nudes and that was a limit we agreed upon . But after 2 months of the relationship we had a lot of daily tasks , punishments and then she suddenly started sharing herself in erotic positions and clothing. So we mutually came up with a new limit which was no fully nude pics or at least pics that don't show her boob (nipples) and her holes .
But then suddenly she said she won't be sharing any erotic pics. We had a few busy months . We now started interacting again.
The problem is she started lying or she tried to evade tasks and punishments in a strange manner . Whenever I asked her for task or punishment she'd say there is someone in the room even if she was alone and I caught her . I discussed it with her that I'm not going to tolerate these kind of lies she can either chose to continue this behavior and we're done or she won't do it again.
The problems came whenever I asked for a task . She started making excuses every time . Another problem was her not sharing pics as proof or video session . Although we mutually agreed on the point that I was allowed to see anything other than her holes and nipples . But she started acting strange whenever it came to turning on her camera or pics ...
Unlike other tasks idk why I just didn't push her for this or I didn't kind of force her to share these pics . Whenever we were having a session and I'd be like show me your dress (within the agreed limits ) and she'd Just start making excuses. Looking at her discomfort I'd just ask her to leave it and changed the topic .
One day when we were talking normally (we have two chats one for acting as friends one for talking as dom sub) , she was depressed that day and when I tried to calm her or ask her for a session. She said "The only thing she can provide in long term relationship was nudes which is her limit "
It shocked me and even made me guilty. It made me feel like a nude hungry monster . But tbh I haven't got a full nude since an year of our relationship. I know I sometimes ask her to show me your position or legs or face but within the limits. But after this whenever I sensed she is getting uncomfortable just because I asked her to show her position or dress or face , I changed the topic .....
Last night we had a session and she was wearing a T shirt 👕 . She was not wearing any trouser . So I was giving her instructions and I told her to get up and show me her legs . I know you guys might judge me but I said that instinctively. She got up and showed her face . When I asked about the legs (the t shirt was long enough to cover her ass) she started pretending like she didn't get it and then then she turned off her internet.. she started making excuses about the light , the door and the window. I asked her to do it as it is in the decided limits. By the time she showed me her legs after some pushing she was wearing a trouser . Thinking I won't know .
I felt so bad . I felt like a nude hungry monster or a bad guy. I don't know . Whenever we go for cam or anything related to tasks or punishments or she'd start evading it most of the times . And now whenever she denies it I change the topic and it feels really bad . I feel like I have started compromising a lot . And I am feeling if I am not eligible for being a dom anymore . It feels taboo to ask her for a few tasks now even if they are in the agreed limits.
Can anyone please guide me ?
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