Hello ladies,

I'm looking for a long term sub to sexually control, meaning:

I want to edge and deny you, for hours, days, and even longer. I will train you and make you absolutely desperate and gooned out of your mind, and 100% dependent on my commands.

And if I decide the time is right, I'll make you orgasm. Maybe ruin one. Maybe have a real one. Or force you to have a few in a row. I will not just deny you indefinitely. If you never orgasm you don't really appreciate and long for what you're missing. But that also doesn't mean you get to cum just every day.

Depending on your interests / kinks / limits I can and will also train other things with you. We'd have to talk about that.

A bit about me:

I like everything to do with control, like orgasm control, edging, denial, forced orgasms, but also bondage, cnc, stuffing, public play. and lots more.

I'm not into anything illegal or related to farts, poop, snot or blood.

I'm more than willing to include other kinks you have into the play, as long they don't fall into my limits. I usually pursue a somewhat soft approach for dom'ing, but are very firm where necessary. If a firmer or even degrading tone is what you need / find attractive I'm happy to adjust to your needs. I enjoy the whole spectrum.

I would also not expect you to share any sort of media, be it pictures, video or audio of any kind. But I will gladly accept it, and am fine to share myself (only on your request and not right at the beginning). I'm especially susceptible for anything audio related.

I also very much enjoy controlling remote toys, and have lots of experience with models of varying manufacturers.

If you like watching porn, I absolutely love to feed pretty much everything (outside my limits).

I have a lot of experience as a dom online, and ample experience IRL.

I'm a freelance IT administrator and thus are pretty flexible with my time, so I'm open for messages from people all over the world.

About you:

You should be a good conversation partner, descriptive, obedient (although I also enjoy some brat taming) and sexually very active.

Also you should have female genitalia. That's not to discriminate, if you're MtF after full transition that's perfectly fine for me, I personally just don't find penises sexually arousing. Sorry!

Communication is the most important thing! If you tend to just leave a conversation if something's not right for you, don't contact me. If something bothers you, distresses you or makes you feel I overstepped a line please instantly tell me, so we can talk about it. I don't want either of us to feel uncomfortable outside of the play space.

You should also be available to play at least a few times a week. The more the better.

If you like to be tied up and have the means and/or abilities to that's a big plus.

Also, any kind of toy helps, but I'll regardlessly stimulate you with everything else you've got available and are willing to use on yourself. Just tell me what you have.

If you're willing and able to fulfill tasks I give you for the time we're not playing and report back on them to me that's very beneficial.

I don't expect to just use and then ignore you. I want to see your needs fulfilled just as mine, and maybe share a conversation and a laugh with you out of play.

If you're still interested after reading through this massive wall of text just drop me a message and we'll see how it goes!