Hello There!

I'm a patient, caring, compassionate guy. I'm told I am good at teaching and explaining, but let me know if I'm a bit long winded, haha -- I love to teach and learn. I love caring for and helping my partner, little, learn and achieve their goals, whether vanilla or kinky. I'm 36, 5'10, 190lb (and working out!), dad-bod, bearded, short hair.

I am well educated, but inexperienced as a Dom/DD. I need first hand experience and I am decently read and learn very quickly. I'm also very communicative and believe in candor and solving problems together, through support.

I love video/board/rp games -- my favorites are Minecraft, Spirit Island, and D&D respectively. I love Anime and Manga like Clamp, MHA, Danmachi, Bleach, Guren Laggan, Card Captor, Sailor Moon. Books like Dresden Files, The Belgariad, SW: The High Republic. I love cooking, especially Japanese and Italian -- I even make my own noodles! I know a lot of cocktails and am a cigar and scotch connoisseur.

I'm a bit of a Japan-phile, hehe. I went there in Spring '24! Ask me about it 😁 (or anything else)

My kinks include: DDlg, Rope (I wanna be a rigger), Domming/topping, Impact play, sensory play, forced/denial-of orgasms, CNC, Age Play, Anal, Bondage, Choking, Slapping, Petplay, Sadism, Breeding/Impregnation, Risk/Public, giving praise, brat taming, scratching/biting... Really this list only grows. My limits include blood, permanent, scat, suspension, CBT.

I'm ever searching for my forever Sub/Little One. I'd prefer her petite/slim/fit/avg, younger than me (18-36). Local to LA/OC area -- I've had my far share of LDR. I love brats and enjoy her fighting back, but someone with a praise kink would really do well with me, I love words of affirmation and finding reasons to indulge my love through rewards. She doesn't need to be experienced (we can learn together!) but if she has more experience than me it'll help me learn faster!

I look forward to meeting you! Thank you for reading this, I know I can be verbose 💝