Hey, how are you doing?

I'm doing well. I just got a new pen. It's pretty cool. It's a platinum fountain pen. I am enjoying it.

Anyway, you don't want to hear me speak of my odd hobby of calligraphy and fountain pens. I'm sure you want to hear about my kinks and what I'm looking for.

Honestly, I'm looking for a submissive. Someone who is between the ages of 18 and 45. This person is understanding, kinky, sexually adventurous--nothing too wild 😉, and communicative.

I don't expect you to know every kink or all the terms of BDSM, but I do expect you to be willing to learn.

Now my kinks. I have quite a list, but I'll do 3 of my favorites and 2 I want to try--fantasy might be a better word.

1. Orgasm control
2. Squirting
3. Impact play

The two fantasies: 1. Threesome or some form of multiple submissives. See this is a fantasy. It would be interesting though. 2. Total Power Exchange. I find this so fascinating and just hot. Having control. Not just power, but absolute power. I find that just incredibly hot.

In my non-kink life, I work in fermentation--my job is in research. I listen to music. I'm trying to listen to all albums before I move on to a new artist. Movies and shows I enjoy immensely. Beyond that, I will disclose that I have a daughter. This is where understanding is important to me.

Some key things to note: I am totally fine with long distance. I'll put in work, but I expect the same from you. If you are close to me, it'll be a challenge to meet up. But not impossible. I will vet with you throughly. I want to understand you and your kinks. This is not a simple talk for a few days and let's play. I will question you. If your partner knows, I'm good with that.

When you send a chat to me, include your age, some kinks, and why you would be a good submissive.