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Vetting through previous partners
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Is it wrong to ask to chat to one of a potential partner's previous partners?
Someone I'm speaking to has just ridiculed that whole notion and I'm thinking that's a red flag. What do you all think?
Was I wrong to ask?
Was I being naive to ask as this person has suggested?
Or is this an acceptable part of the vetting process and is it a red flag that he's dismissing the notion out of hand? I'd be really interested to hear what you all think.
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