Reposting because although we have talked to some people, we have yet to find the right fit...

37F here, one half of a MF couple (M is 29). I'm bi (well pan really), he's straight-ish. I have had threesomes before (but always as the third), but he hasn't. Since I come with the experience of having been a unicorn I understand how annoying it is when a cis het guy talks his girlfriend/wife into a threesome she doesn't really want. Let me reassure you that a) I have never wondered if I'm straight because I've always known I'm not, and b) this is absolutely my idea and he is just gratefully and respectfully along for the ride. At this point in my life I am super picky about the extent to which men understand boundaries and consent, and he is the safest most comfy partner I've ever had. As a former unicorn I also understand that the third is the hot commodity, not the couple... so whatever you're comfortable with, we'll figure it out. If you want a one time thing, great. If you'd prefer the option for something that happens again in the future, cool. If you wanna meet us first so you know we're not serial killers, awesome. If you'd rather know nothing about us and just have a fun sexy night with two people who really like naked women, we're down. If this is your first threesome I'm happy to chat with you without him around first because that's what my first couple did for me and I really appreciated it.

Things you should probably be cool with: a fat girl who isn't insecure about it, an apartment that has cats, and two people who work in healthcare and have really dark senses of humour (but we think we're hilarious). For interest - we both have tattoos, I have a nipple piercing, and he's got a cool job (I mean I do too, but people like his better).

Open to all kinds of people. But solo men - please do not message me. You are not special, and I won't "make an exception." Couples... please only message me if the woman in your life is willing to play with another woman. We are open to the idea of a couples playdate but only with a woman who isn't straight. Send pics and we'll send ours. We're pretty open-minded and think sex should be fun.