So I met my ex in February of this year and things were great in the beginning. Eventually she told me how she just got out of a situationship with this guy because he was loyal to his ex but i didn’t pay it no mind because everyone has a pass and i really liked the chick. Now mind you her past relationships were messed up ( 1 ex proposed to her but was cheating on her, another physically abused her, another was controlling and somewhat violent with her). A month into us talking i asked her to be my gf and she said yes. Eventually things turned for the worst and we started to get more frustrated, and yelled at each other more frequently. One day i was staying at her apartment and she told me she wants me to read some love language to better understand her love language and as soon as i opened the book a photo of one of her previous exs fell out. I ask her why does she still have this and she told me some excuse about how she forgot it was in there. Then the next day before she left for work she finds another photo of another ex under her refrigerator and acted very suspicious about it. It didn’t sit right with me so i went through her stuff when she was at work and found A LOT of things from multiple exes of her. I asked her multiple times before this incident to please get rid of all your exes things because it not pleasant to see that stuff but she would always say how busy she is, or she forgets that she still has their stuff, etc. (Keep in mind that I did it for her months ago when she asked me too). When she came home i asked her first does she love any of her exes still and she gave me a generic “I don’t love them but i appreciate the experience” or something like that. Then i told her what i did and at first she didnt take it seriously but the next day she completely changed. She asked me why i did it, what prompted you too, what did you find, etc. and i told her that:

1: I’ve asked you multiple times to remove these things 2: there has been multiple times where things have randomly been found 3: i felt like you were hiding something

Now mind you mostly all of her relationships she’s been in has been messed Needless to say she told me how i was wrong and i invaded her privacy, and that she doesn’t know if she can trust me. She tells me to leave and we didnt see each other for a little over a week. Eventually we finally see each other and have a long conversation about the incident and what we needed to change and it went good (Or so i thought). After the conversation we were great, she still let me come over while she was at work, less arguing, less nagging, more loving, more communication about we feel. Finally one day she flipped at the start the day it was good, she told me to come over when she gets home so we go out but then she sends me this ig post about how she feels like she’s using me as a punching bag and how she does and if you don’t like who you’ve become inside of the relationship you should leave. I was confused and we talked about it on the phone but both agreed that we’d talk about it more when we meet later. Turns out when i called to see if shes ready for me to come , she was at her friends house. I was hurt, then she says that she sorry she didn’t mean to hurt me and broke up with me through text. I couldn’t understand how can someone flip a switch literally in a matter of a couple hours. Even after she told me she loved me, how she couldn’t see not spending the rest of her life without me. I helped her financially, brought her gifts, reassured her of my love for her, you name it. But the one time i make a mistake it’s over. Recently i found out that while we were still together she went to the club her recent ex boyfriend works at for a bday party for one of her friends but she told me earlier in the night that she was home and she’d text me when she wakes up, instead she text me at 230am saying “sorry I’m just waking up to take my meds”. I think she cheated on me with her ex who was loyal to someone else over her. I texted her about that situation and for closure but she replied saying “stop contacting her” so i have my answer. Idk what to do it makes no sense why she was egging me on if she was already emotionally moved on. I did my best to be good to her, and gave her everything she needed.

What should i do?

What you guys think of the situation?