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I feel as though I may never be capable of having a genuine or meaningful connection with someone, let alone one that lasts. I have been trying to interrogate the way I view relationships in general; recently, I have thought that maybe there is some flaw in the way I'm viewing other people and the purpose of connections in general. For as much as a constantly obsess over my relationships, I think maybe the view I have of the world isn't as 'objective' as I've tricked myself into thinking it is.
Do you think your view of relationships is accurate? Do you think you're approaching possible connections the way others are, and the flaw is in your personality and not the way you're viewing the situation and reacting to it? Do you think this something that can be changed?
Yes, I can't shake myself from thinking that people only act friendly to me out of pity or smthn. I'm always worried that I'm bothering people or being a burden in some way. I always need validation, and it's a horrible feeling.
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