Hiii!! I'm a 22 y/o autist artist (hehe) and I'm trying to date again, but I really want to connect specifically with other neurodivergent people. I want someone I'm way more likely to have a lot in common with, and who will "get it" y'know? And maybe won't get as frustrated by the quirks of my "condition". The idea of constantly having to go "sorry I just do that sometimes" and "no I'm not ignoring you on purpose it's just that you said 'bread' earlier and now I'm thinking about that whether I like it or not" makes me stressed as heck.

I'd normally just put "Autistic" in a profile in a dating app or something but due to current life circumstances I also want someone whose okay with Long Distance for awhile, and it seems most people just shut that down immediately on apps.

All the posts I've found on this topic are like 5 years old at this point so with modern info, are there any GOOD dating apps or Discord communities or like ANYTHING you guys recommend? I'm transfem and lesbian if that narrows it down at all btw. Any help appreciated thank you!! (Also if ur a cute girl message me about ur special interest if you want I dunno aaaaaaaaaaa)