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I put this up on another community and only had one response. It did help but I am hoping I get more responses here. I have just gotten out of a 5 year relationship with someone I didnt love. I barely liked her. She took a lot of my money too. Even without the theft I feel lost . I dont know how I even moved in with her to start with. I keep making myself numb because I am scared to feel the disgust. I fear if I let myself feel the disgust I will disintegrate .I hear women can feel disgusted by someone they were with whom they really never liked but as a male I never hear males describe the experience as disgusting but thats how I feel. Now I have touched upon it I need to turn off my computer to go outside for air . I will come back later and hopefully people have helped me. Thank you.
Autistics are constantly being gaslight for the entire life. You say a noise is too loud, they say it's not. You say something that you thought was on an normal tone, people say you are screemming, or being super rude. This teaches autistics to doubt themselves, and creates this state of permanent submission. So the narcisists and normal NT who are toxic can come to exploit an autistic person for years without any bad consequences! This makes me so furious. If autistics were brought up in an environment that teaches them to trust themselves, this would not be so common. In my country it has a name, its called "sentimental fraud", and it became a crime to take any money from autistic people, or any deficient people in general, and this can be brought to police, depending on how much money she took from you. You could consider if you want to bring it to a lawyer or directly to police, and if I was in your place that is what I would do.
Omg, sorry to hear that, makes me so furious!!! Maybe if you found a good lawyer, is there anything he could do? Lawsuit them for fraud or something? But now with the kid makes everything much more complicated.
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That is really sad, that you can't do anything about that. That is terrible.