My 6yo daughter recently was diagnosed with autism and ADHD. We weren’t given a level but I’d say level 1 if I had to guess. She struggles the most at school. She is very verbally abusive, violent and aggressive towards staff. About a month ago there was an incident where she tried to run off to see her brother on the playground as he attends the same school. Apparently he wasn’t out there at that time but regardless it was time for the rest of the class to come in. She said the staff hurt her when handling her coming inside. Pretty much since then her aggression has come home and she’s started bedwetting which has never been an issue for her. She continues to have more and more bad days at school. I feel absolutely torn but I just can’t drop her off there anymore. We have an IEP but I feel they duped me bc the only two modifications are 30 mins of pull out time and time and a half - both at teacher discretion. We start ABA services next week but I’m not confident this is going to make any changes fast enough that would lead to positive experiences at school. Should I just quit my job and apply for Homebound (an at home public school service for which she qualifies for) or should I continue to take her and hope for the best? Im at a loss ..