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https://www.reddit.com/r/AutismInWomen/comments/xvepqx/i_often_dislike_autistic_men/
Just look at all the comments under that post. Everyone is applauding her for making broad assumptions about autistic men saying the majority of us are stalkers and harass people and only "some" are cool. Imagine going through your entire life being treated and seen like this. I have never had a gf, have basically no friends, no work, not in education, just living at home with my parents as a 20 year old NEET adult because society thinks I am a "weirdo" and a "creep" who "harasses" people because I am "loud" and "abrasive". The women commenting on the post have no idea about this because their entire lives they were seen as "quirky" and "funny" and people let them develop their social skills. In comparison me and most autistic men were never allowed we just live the most depressing possible lives you can ever think of. Dont believe me? Compare the posts on r/aspergers and r/aspergirls or r/AutismInWomen. You will never see in the female autism posts about "I am so lonely" or "I am a 30 year old NEET living with my parents" or "Im 37 and never had a partner". You will only see these on the r/aspergers or r/autism subreddits because us men go through hell. I am depressed, I have anxiety, OCD, ADHD and complex PTSD from all the ferocious bullying and reading that post made me so insanely sad about how autistic men are seen and treated in the world. THis has to stop
I want you guys to know that if you are a parnet of a level 1 ASD son you MUST make a valiant and consistent effort to socialise them properly. If you do not they will end up like what those women are talking about in teh post: "creepy" and "weird". So many women have said to me i am too weird and quiet and I did not know that I was acting like that. Its because my parents never trained me properly in social sklils. They assumed it would all work out. LEvel 1 ASD should not be underestimated.
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