Has anyone else had this phrase deployed against them when they complain about how people treat them?

I have. I get it a lot from people whenever I talk about how I don't like being infantilized for being autistic or otherwise treating me in an ableist manner, treating me like I don't have any value because employers find it difficult to make money off of me and I need accommodations, or whenever I face discrimination for being a trans woman.

It feels like gaslighting. These things directly impact the quality of my life, and I'm basically being told to shut up about them in a toxically positive way.

I criticize the way society treats people like me - and, for that matter, people not like me - because it has a very obvious impact on our qualities of life we're basically being told to just shut up about and ignore.

I'm sick of it. I'm not an allistic cishet man. I don't have the luxury to "stop caring what other people think about me". That's a privilege.

I live in a society that is discriminatory towards people like me and I'm sure as hell going to be a vocal critic of it because it sometimes feels like the only thing I can do.

Has anyone else had this problem?