My mother and I (F22) don't have the best relationship. She makes wrongful assumptions about how I think about her. There was a misunderstanding where she ended up going off on me completely. Even my little sister (12) agrees that our mom isn't making any sense. Anyway, she brought up something I told my father the other day. I have pretty bad migraines very frequently and I commented "I think I'm gonna die." And of course my dad was like "Stop saying things like that." Then I said "What? If I die you guys would have more money anyway." Now he was really upset. I guess he told my mother about what I said without any thought. It's not the first time I said that too. She brought this up today and said that she can't imagine why I think like that. She said that she thinks that I think she's a 'high class b*tch" and that I think that I'm a burden. I don't think any of those things. My parents pay my tuition for college. My government pays 75% every semester and they pay the remaining 25%. Still a lot. Literally speaking, wouldn't what I said be true? It is fact that if I died there'd be more money. Even as I'm typing this we don't have internet at home because we can't pay the bill so I'm borrowing some of her data. I don't understand why she's upset. She said that it hurts because she carried me for 9 months and provided for me all my life. I get that. But if I weren't here then that's thousands of dollars saved. Am I wrong?