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On grieving the life you anticipated for yourself
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I’m looking for books on how to handle and move through grieving the life you anticipated having for yourself.

I’ve been dealing with more depressive thoughts about how my life was supposed to be bigger than this. I can’t handle the friendships I have, let alone making new ones. I feel like I’m constantly apologizing for other people’s version of events, and I’m eating crow to avoid further upsetting people. I’ve always wanted to be married, and I imagined that I would have more luck with people once I left the homogeneous place I came from.

I have a therapist, but she’s still new to me. (This week will be our fourth appointment.). I’ll talk to her about this, but, I think it might be helpful to have some other reading material. Please no platitudes.

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