Introduction

My wife and I have recently been enjoying the opening of our marriage.

It has worked out well for her, for myself and for us jointly. It has greatly enhanced our communication, our sex life and our deep care/appreciation/desire/understanding for each other. We are even more deeply in love than we were before we opened up our marriage.

In many open marriages, there is the "one penis rule" where the husband has the silly notion he can have conquests and keep his primary partner but doesn't really ensure his partners pleasure. This is not the case with us. I took care of my wife and ensured that she had every one of her fantasies fulfilled. She now has some lovely gentlemen she is dating on an on-going basis and they are fulfilling some needs. kinks of hers (she is dominant, as am I so she's enjoying submissive men)

With my wife fully taken care of (by me and some other partners), I am now seeking long term basis female partners for both relationship and casual play.

Me:

• Married ~20 years
• Mid career professional , financially comfortable , well established
• Brown hair/eyes, 6'0
• Calm, considerate, classy . A gentlemen.
• Logical, guarded
• Often described as very cute/handsome/"hot" (I receive quite a bit of positive female attention on a regular basis)
• I have a wife who keeps me very sissified, so you'll never have to feel guilty if your time is limited or maybe your asexual or take a long time to warm up to sex.
• I would be looking to date/play separately from my wife. She is open to meet you with me one time if you want. She is also ok with not meeting you.
• Can host or come to you as you are comfortable

You:

• Cis female who is single/casually dating/open marriage/looking to have an affair. .
• happy being single and you prioritize friends/career over dating, but you are seeking someone discrete, reliable who isn't going to blow up your phone or be "clingy" and is fully understanding of your busy schedules/complex situation. a friend/play partner to cuddle/have fun times with.
• highly intelligent/driven , enjoy deeply intelligent conversation and discussing complex topics in depth. Happy to spend a Saturday debating me at the coffee shop about geopolitics/religion to where we are almost fighting and then go have incredible passionate sex and then keep debating.
  
• Kind. There is a difference between nice and kind. I want kind people only please
• truly interested in cuddling/going out for coffee or tea /watching documentaries on netflix/listening to awesome podcasts/going dancing? I want a good close female friend that I also (if we both want to ) have sex with. While I am not opposed to a more purely sexual relationship , I would prefer a 70/30 or so friend/benefits ratio.
• want someone who isn't sexually thirsty, but is happy to drink whenever you offer until you are satisficed.
• has sexual scenarios/fantasies that you want to explore, but wouldn't want to with a "real" partner? (dom/sub, wide range of kinks/scenarios, roleplay, CNC etc.). I'm extremely open sexually and always happy to explore. I also really enjoy "vanilla" sex to. I am very into giving oral and can easily do that for an hour or more. .

I have been meeting many women organically, and I've met several women which meet the above criteria. However it's been difficult to broach the subject of ENM/lifestyle/"married but available". Those I have broached it with, haven't been open to dating me (but would date me if I was single).

If you seek a polite, intelligent, kind gentlemen who will also make you cum just how you like, please reach out!

Send me a few paragraphs about yourself, what you are seeking. Happy todo phone call/FaceTime after we get to know each other over Reddit chat. Also 100% open to in-person meeting for first meeting if you like. It all depends on your comfort level/schedule etc.