Introduction

Hello to all the lovely females of central texas!

Male half of an open marriage couple here. We have been married for 17 years, together 18 (married a year after we met).

I am looking to develop an ongoing friend/play relationship with someone other than my wife with her full consent, support and encouragement. My wife and I have recently been more thoroughly enjoying the lifestyle. She has been actively dating some amazing partners and having a wonderful time. She is enjoying new/novel experiences.

I am now focusing on my own enjoyment and looking to begin dating some other partners and hopefully have some success as she has found.

I would be looking to date/play separately from my wife. She is open to meet you with me one time if you want. She is also ok with not meeting you.

I can host, or can come to you, as your comfortable. I am broadly available schedule wise.

About me

• Married
• Mid career professional (started a small aerospace engineering company)
• Brown hair/eyes, 6'0
• Calm, considerate, classy . A gentlemen.
• Logical, guarded
• Often described as very cute/handsome/"hot"

What I am looking for:

• Cis females who are single/casually dating/open marriage/looking for affair. Happy to help "keep you warm" while you are looking for your primary partner. I can be the safe/fun/discrete/comfortable "perfect girlfriend but with a penis" that keeps you from making sub optimal partner choice :)
• Are you happy being single? Do you prioritize friends/career over dating, but would like to have someone to cuddle/have fun times with but no time for a serious/"proper" relationship? Are you seeking a discrete, reliable friend/play partner who isn't going to blow up your phone or be "clingy" and is fully understanding of busy schedules/complex situations? I have a wife who keeps me very sissified, so you'll never have to feel guilty if your time is limited or maybe your asexual or take a long time to warm up to sex.
• Are you highly intelligent/driven? Do you enjoy deeply intelligent conversation and discussing complex topics in depth? Would you spend a Saturday debating me at the coffee shop about geopolitics/religion to where we are almost fighting and then go have incredible passionate sex and then keep debating?
  
• You must be kind. There is a difference between nice and kind. I want kind people only please :)
• You must be a dog owner. Our first date will be at yard bar. I will observe how you interact with your and other dogs. I've found that to be a very reliable indicator of a persons character. I have three dogs and they will have to approve of you :)
• Are you truly interested in cuddling/going out for coffee or tea /watching documentaries on netflix/listening to awesome podcasts/going dancing? I want a good close female friend that I also (if we both want to ) have sex with. While I am not opposed to a more purely sexual relationship , I would prefer a 70/30 or so friend/benefits ratio.
• Do you want someone who isn't sexually thirsty, but is happy to drink whenever you offer?
• Do you have sexual scenarios/fantasies that you want to explore, but wouldn't want to with a "real" partner? (dom/sub, wide range of kinks/scenarios, roleplay, CNC etc). I'm extremely open sexually and always happy to explore. I also really enjoy "vanilla" sex to :) I am very into giving oral and can easily do that for an hour or more. .

I have been meeting many women organically, and I've met several women which meet the above criteria. However it's been difficult to broach the subject of ENM/lifestyle/"married but available". Those I have broached it with, haven't been open to dating me (but would date me if I was single).

DMs open! Send a few sentences about what you are seeking.