Hello to all the lovely females of central texas!

Male half of an ENM couple here. looking to develop an ongoing friend/play relationship with someone other than my wife.

We have been married for 17 years, together 18 (married a year after we met). My wife and I have recently been more thoroughly enjoying the lifestyle. She has been actively dating, some amazing partners and having a wonderful time. I have put in quite a bit of work helping with selecting and screening male and female candidates for her.

I am now beginning to focus more on my own enjoyment and dating some other partners.

I would be looking to date/play separately from my wife. She is open to meet you with me one time if you want. She is also ok with not meeting you. She would like to watch us play but understands that isn't for everyone.

We aren't looking for a 3rd for dating.

I can host, or can come to you, as your comfortable. I am broadly available schedule wise.

What I am looking for::

• Cis females who are single/casually dating. Happy to help "keep you warm" while you are looking for your primary partner. I can be the safe/fun/discrete/comfortable "perfect girlfriend but with a penis" that keeps you from making sub optimal partner choice :)
• Are you happy being single? Do you prioritize friends/career over dating, but would like to have someone to cuddle/have fun times with but no time for a serious/"proper" relationship? Are you seeking a discrete, reliable friend/play partner who isn't going to blow up your phone or be "clingy" and is fully understanding of busy schedules/complex situations? I have a wife who keeps me very satisficed, so you'll never have to feel guilty if your time is limited.
• Have you had a horrible experience on the dating apps and maybe aren't on them at all?
• Do you want someone who isn't sexually thirsty, but is happy to drink whenever you offer?
• Are you highly intelligent/driven? Do you enjoy deeply intelligent conversation and discussing complex topics in depth? Would you spend a Saturday debating me at the coffee shop about geopolitics/religion to where we are almost fighting and then go have incredible passionate sex and then keep debating?
  
• You must be kind. There is a difference between nice and kind. I want kind people only please :)
• You must be a dog owner. Our first date will be at yard bar. I will observe how you interact with your and other dogs. I've found that to be a very reliable indicator of a persons character. I have three dogs and they will have to approve of you :)
• Are you truly interested in cuddling/going out for coffee or tea /watching documentaries on netflix/listening to awesome podcasts/going dancing? I want a good friend that I also have sex with. While I am not opposed to a more purely sexual relationship , I would prefer a 70/30 or so friend/benefits ratio.
• Do you have sexual scenarios/fantasies that you want to explore, but wouldn't want to with a "real" partner? (dom/sub, wide range of kinks/scenarios, roleplay, CNC etc). I'm extremely open sexually and always happy to explore. I also really enjoy "vanilla" sex to :) I am very into giving oral and can easily do that for an hour or more. . I have been meeting many women organically, and I've met several women which meet the above criteria. However it's been difficult to broach the subject of ENM/lifestyle/"married but available". Those I have broached it with, haven't been open to dating me (but would date me if I was single).

DMs open! Send a few sentences about what you are seeking.