Hello women of central Texas :)
I am the husband of a married couple who has been enjoying the lifestyle. She has been actively dating and having a blast. I have had lots of fun selecting, screening and delivering men to her.
I figured I would dip my toe into the dating pool of ENM / lifestyle and see what happens. The "single male" / "married but available" :)
We have been very happy with the experience so far (enjoying group sex/gang bangs , spit roasting and having an absolute blast!) .
It has improved our communication, our sex life, everything! If you are thinking about opening up your relationship to seek even higher levels of compatibility/closeness/love/romance, do it!
My wife has been exploring her nurturing/(sensual)dominant side recently She now has her pick of vetted, reliable, caring, respectful single men every night of the week and has been seeing/dating some regulars.
My ideal candidate:
* (very) single / casually dating (I don't mind if your actively looking for a primary partner) (open to being a side piece if your into that) (in the right circumstances open to married women (ideally your husband knows about us, but it's not a requirement as long as risk is managed))
* Had a horrible experience on the dating apps
* Above average to extremely pretty. (Brunets strongly preferred)
* High intelligence/has a degree
* Dog owner
* Introverted extrovert (you would respond to someone chatting you up but you generally don't approach other people)
* Happy being single, wouldn't mind a discrete, reliable play partner who isn't going to blow up your phone.
* Truly interested in cuddling/netflix/podcasts and also having sex
I have been meeting many women organically and starting to date. I've met several women of the above criteria. Working on broaching the swinging/ENM topic with them. I figured I would post here where people are pre-disposed to such things :)
DMs open! Send a few sentences about what you are seeking.
I would be looking to play separately from my wife (unless you are OK with her watching/participating).