Introduction

My wife and I have a fully open marriage. Our love is monogamous, our sex is not.

In many open marriages, there is the "one penis rule" where the husband has the silly notion he can have conquests(in the mythical valley of dolls) and keep his primary partner from other males and isn't interested in his partners pleasure.

This is not the case with us. I take very good care of my wife and ensure that she has every one of her fantasies/desires/kinks fulfilled. With males and females. It has worked out well for her, for myself and for us jointly. It has greatly enhanced our communication, our sex life and our deep care/appreciation/desire/understanding for each other.

She now has some lovely gentlemen she is dating on an on-going basis and they are fulfilling some kinks of hers (she is slightly submissive / vanilla with me, but quite dominant with her other partners). We also have some male and female playthings we enjoy together.

I am now seeking a girlfriend for myself. Yes, I said girlfriend. I want to form a sincere, deep, meaningful but compartmentalized emotional bond with a special someone.

Ideal girlfriend:

(flexible on all the below, just painting a picture of ideal partner for me right now)

• Late 20s early 30s
• Career/education focused
• Ambitious / smart / funny / strong
• Enjoys meaningful conversation about deep topics
• Comfortable with casually dating a very happily married man with a beautiful amazing wife who is fully supportive of this (yes you can talk with her to verify)
• Interested in a man who is able to host, is discrete, honest, reliable, intelligent, kind, fun . A "steady booty call" that you can cuddle with and won't catch feelings or be a distraction or want more than you can give.

Sexually... I would prefer mostly vanilla / love making sexual relationship (perhaps some very light restraint/blindfold play). I want the sex to be light/fun/playful/sweet. (I have plenty of heavy intense kink play with my wife and our playthings).I'm open to exploring/teaching kink , but it's not my preference.

I am open to being a stress relief toy, and if that means you need to tie me up and ride my face or other parts of me until you get your fill....

If you seek a polite, intelligent, kind gentlemen who will make you cum just how you like, please reach out!

Send me a few paragraphs about yourself, what you are seeking.

Me:

• Married ~20 years
• Mid career professional , financially comfortable , well established
• Brown hair/eyes, 6'0
• Calm, considerate, classy . A gentlemen.
• Logical, guarded
• Often described as very cute/handsome/"hot" (I receive quite a bit of positive female attention on a regular basis)
• I have a wife who keeps me very satisficed, so you'll never have to feel guilty if your time is limited or maybe your asexual or take a long time to warm up to sex.
• I would be looking to date/play separately from my wife. She is open to meet you with me one time if you want. She is also ok with not meeting you.
• Can host or come to you as you are comfortable