Hi I know this subreddit is for hook ups but I wasn’t sure where to really post and I felt like maybe on a human level some people could understand.

I dress up as a normal guy in public to blend in with society and just not get the unwanted positive or negative attention. However, in private I’d love to find a man that would view me as his girl and allow me to express my femininity freely.

I feel like there are some straight men out there that would like to date a femboy even if he thought he was heterosexual his whole life.

I’m really trying to stay away from casual hook ups. I actually went on my first date with a straight man while in boy mode or boys clothes. It was actually nice for a man to get to know me. Of course, I want to express and show a man that I feel more comfortable presenting as a feminine but it’s also nice to know a man can be patient and understanding while I’m in boy mode.

After a man respectfully gets to know me, I’d love to spend time with him as his girl. I’m an affectionate person. I love hugs, snuggles, and allowing a man to feel safe with my feminine presence. I know some men tell me dating cis women has been a challenge and they want to try a femboy.

A little about me: I’m 36. Asian. 5’7” 170. I love to go on long hikes, travel, be adventurous. I also play tennis at a high level, play piano, cook, love a healthy lifestyle. I love to show a man love through physical touch and acts of service. I love being in sexy cute outfits for my man but also being sporty and tomboyish and not afraid to get my hands dirty. My name is Sammy. It’s nice when someone introduces themselves properly instead of saying “what’s up sexy” 🙄