Good looking and shy bi guy here. Inexperienced bottom but had one long term fwb and I learned a lot about myself and my desires, along with just how wonderfully releasing and relaxing it is to have a safe space to express my desires and give attention to a guy who needs and deserves it.

Having said that, I am not a random hook up kind of person and like to feel like I have a connection, build up anticipation with chatting, and feel like its a safe space to share all things sexual in conversation. For me, the conversation is the start of foreplay.

I also have a strong preference to focus on you. I don't really care or want any attention or pleasure for myself, as I get my satisfaction from yours. I consider myself pretty vanilla, but can get into some very gentle sub/dom with the right guy, though barely explored that pathway. I have done a threesome with a very close lady friend of mine and I would like to again, but prefer to start just myself and slowly and occasionally bring her in. So, definitely need you to be bi and ok with me sharing things with her.