I posted a while ago and ended up having a bit of fun. Looking for another adventure!

During the 2020 quarantine I had idle time and you know what they say about idle time, especially idle hands.

So I channeled my energy into learning sensual body work skills and I even earned a certification. Sure, it's not from Harvard but I didn't learn this skill to be an academic. I learned these skills to make the world a better place.

Yoni is the Sanskrit word for "sacred space", and uses various techniques to reduce tension, destress, and provide pleasure. It's a bodyrub that's slowly worked into; usually by focusing on areas that carry tension like the back, shoulders, hips, calves, and feet. It's important to receiver be comfortable so lighting, aromas, soothing music, and maybe even a blindfold are all important elements while warming up. A blindfold works to heighten the additional senses and leads to anticipation of touch. Sometimes the receiver wants to chat but it's also ok to focus on the sensations, process, and relaxation. I prefer virgin coconut oil because it smells great, is good for the skin, and glides nicely.

As the experience progresses, the provider will begin to work on areas that lead to deeper pleasure such as the hands, hips, inner thighs, and breasts. It's important to activate the pleasure zones and build anticipation. It's also important to read the signals and focus on deeper levels of relaxation and pleasure. The receiver can signal what she wants by moving towards the touch that feels nice, sighing, moaning, or asking for attention or a specific focus on certain areas. Everyone has that one or two areas that you just want more of. Similarly, the receive needs to communicate if something doesn't feel nice by saying no, raising a finger, or other body language. A receptive provider will read the signals and focus on providing relaxation and avoiding touch that doesn't result in pleasure.

As the touch begins to turn move sensual and intimate, the provider will ask permission to begin focusing on the inner thighs and begin working closer and closer. The focus will be on using plenty of oil and slowly working the hips, outer thighs, inner thighs, and lower stomach area. The outer hips need firm, deep pressure but the front hips and inner thighs need slow, almost teasing motions to awaken and intensify relaxation. It's a mixture of gentle fingertips and firm pressure from the palms and hands.

My favorite technique is to have the receiver lie on her back with legs slightly open. I take both hands and firmly place them on the upper leg/hip area and let my thumbs rest on the inner thighs. I'll slowly use my thumbs to caress the inner thighs using gliding motions or circles, while gently applying pressure on the lower tummy and hip area. Making sure I have plenty of oil, I'll begin to slide my thumbs closer and eventually begin massaging the outer labia. I like to take me time to caress, tease, and explore with the right pressure and pace. Feeling two hands firmly kneading, gently spreading, and alternating with smooth stroking along the labia is incredibly soothing. There are additional techniques and motions that you might find equally enjoyable. You just need to ask for what you’d like.

The goal is to read the communication of the receiver, build tension, and if possible, provide a release through orgasm. Sometimes it's tough to achieve this release. But that's ok because the experience is soothing and enjoyable. Some women want more of a sensual experience but others want a more rhythmic effort with deeper and fuller penetration. A skilled provider is happy to give either.

The provider will finish the experience with another quick, full body rub to enhance relaxation and begin aftercare to clean any excess oil and bring the receiver down. Hopefully, the receiver feels relaxed, received yoni-centered destressing, and enjoyed her time.

The challenge to the provider with a true yoni experience is that the experience shouldn't be sexual for the giver. It's about providing relaxation and pleasure to the receiver. In fact, there's even a code of ethics. I've had a couple meet-ups and each is quite tortuous but it feels nice to provide that pleasure and relaxation without the expectation of anything in return.

Me? I'm late thirties, white, fit (6' 210lbs- Dad Bod?), strong, soft, and well-cared for hands. I’m sane, kind, educated, safe, vaxxed, and have an interesting but kind of stressful job. This is my hobby and I find it very relaxing also. I love learning anything science related, and like adventure big and small. I'm not great looking and not terrible looking either. Safety, anonymity, and communication are important to me. I’d be happy to chat, exchange some pictures, and see if we’re a match. I'm open to all types and enjoy new experiences.

I have a portable table, draping, and sensual oil. I'm in South Austin and I’m open to travel or hosting. I don't post often and connections can be difficult to make. That's ok. But sometimes a connection is made and an enjoyable experience results. Maybe shoot me a message if this caught your attention.

Thank you for reading :)