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The weirdest connection I ever experienced. Help me understand it.
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Super strong bond, on again off again for 7 years. Mind blowing intimacy. Transformative bond. Literally my dream partner - so many similarities BUT he always had lots of anxiety around our connection, and regularly distanced himself. Which made no sense to me and put me through hell.

It's been over for ages now, not in contact anymore and I still think I will never get fully over the man. I'm in red, he is in blue.

Still can't make sense of it. In other relationships, before and after, I'm normal. Not in this one. Probably similar for him. Why? And why was he so triggered by me?

Open to any input, it's the first time I ask someone else to interpret our synastry.

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