I’m set to receive an inheritance from my mom sometime this year (I live in Georgia). I don’t know how much it will be because the probate court is so screwed up that my brother still doesn’t have the letter that would allow him to access her accounts (she died last December). Mom’s lawyer is helping, but the two sides that take in the filings (electronic filings and mail filings) not only don’t communicate with each other but they don’t combine the filings into one account in their system! In addition, there’s five equal beneficiaries. So what I want to do is just give my oldest daughter (age 33) the entire inheritance. She’s single and low income. I’m disabled and have been too much of a burden on her for too long. Also, my younger daughter (24) disowned me a few years ago and doesn’t know her grandma died or that I’m getting anything from her. She blocked me, moved and I don’t know where she is, so I don’t feel obligated to give her anything. I’m a disabled widow, senior, struggling on SSDI, and homeless, but I don’t want my oldest to have to care for me anymore. I just want to give her the money and let her build a life that doesn’t include taking care of me. So can I do this, and if so, how do I do it?