My wife and I have been together for 8 years. Been trying to spice things up lately. Asking her for dirty pics while she’s at work and sending her roleplay scenarios I wanna try. Tonight we are finally trying one out.

I sent her a synopsis of what I’m thinking and made it easy for her since she is nervous Bout staying in character.

I laid out new lingerie and am waiting for her to put it on get in bed with her fav toy and lmk when I can come in to find her having “me time” then (consenting) punishment for not telling me to join and having her doing it behind my back. ((Which is totally normal for both of us between couple times)).

Anyone have similar experiences they wanna share? Would luv to hear other ideas from the woman’s perspective