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Recently realized I’m perimenopausal, so I’ve been reflecting on my wellbeing in a holistic way. Got me wondering…
How often do folks here in 10 YEAR RELATIONSHIPS have sex?
^ Edit: Emphasizing since I didn’t make my OP clear enough. ^
My husband (50 M) and I (41 AFAB/NB) have a fabulous time in the bedroom but it’s usually once a week to 2-3 times a month.
According to an AARP article I found, we’re doing really well lol but I’d rather hear from this bunch.
Not really looking for advice (pretty happy), just curious to get a pulse check.
https://www.aarp.org/home-family/friends-family/info-2023/sex-over-40-study.html
SUMMARY: Thanks, all, for sharing your experiences! As I expected to hear, the range is allllll over the place, and points back to the tried-and-true "do what works for you." <3
Last relationship was over 10 years and the reason we broke up was our incompatibility on sex but also closely related as you would think on emotionally having drifted apart over it. He sort of just lost interest in sex even though we were emotionally close initially and I felt very disconnected from him without it. It just pushed us further apart emotionally. So this was in reverse of most stories I think.
We had reliable cheap "pizza" sex twice a week for the last 5 years. Last 2 years it went down to once a week. I say pizza sex because pizza is always good even when it's bad. But there is a huge difference between fantastic napoli wood fired pizza and a cheap frozen pizza.
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Hmmm. Well neither of us smell very much so we just wash off with a quick rinse if possible or not with just baby wipes. You really shouldn't smell that much. As for his cum smell, he isn't that strong and I quite frankly love the scent on me. Others around me can't pick it up. I can smell it when I go to the bathroom to pee through the rest of the day. I like the smell of his sweat as well. So doesn't bother me having a faint smell of him on me.