I've had a bit of a hiccup recently with a girlfriend I've known over 15 years now. When I think back over the course of our friendship, I felt she couldn't give me the kind of emotional support I needed. I let small things slide so as to keep the friendship alive. Mostly she was a great person to travel with, go shopping with, fancy dinners/brunches/wineries... But as soon as the topic of feelings came up - I'd get shut down & told to "get over it". Out of my three close girlfriends she's the one who I wouldn't be so sad in seeing less of.

I feel like now that I'm 40 , my tolerance for BS from both men & women in any capacity has gone down, and I won't hesitate to walk away if I feel I'm not being treated right.

Does anyone else re-evaluate their friendships at this stage of their lives?