I am at a cross road.. I always saw myself as adventures person, until now… where my upbringing raised me straight and I only once remember saying to by first BF that I would sleep with a girl. Now I am in a good relationship with a man, who as many fantasies about threesome with another female. He had that experience in the past, loved it and would love to repeat it. The idea doesn’t appeal to me, but I started to watch threesomes and it turns me on, but I can’t imagine doing it myself. So I asking myself why. I am not excited about it for many reasons: - To me sex = love - I am very selective on physical connection and prefer to not share even food with others to avoid contact with their saliva - I am possessive toward my partner and the idea me watching him fuck another women terrifies me.

But I am thinking. I never experimented with my sexuality in my early youth. Never touched women brest or kissed a women and the idea of it turns me on. But my values/views tell me it is wrong.

questions are: - if you experienced sex/intimacy with another women if your 30s or later, what pulled you doing it? - how did you feel after? - did you have any sexual experience that you were not excited about at first but loved it after?