I had my first bf at 15, I'm now 35 and got dumped recently and having a hard time coping. This was more or less my 6th relationship (although this one was more of a 1.5-year situationship), I've had a couple of months being "single" throughout this time but was dating around and inevitably found myself in another thing.

I feel everything I've done in my life was go with the flow (of other people) and now I don't know where to go. I'm in a well paying job that I don't like, no goals for where I'd like to go or what I want out of it.

How was it when you became single? Was it your choice or just happened to you? How long have you been/were you single for? How was it in the beginning?

Edit: Please don't send me a private message with your response. If you comment and I want to know more about your situation or vice versa, we'll talk then.