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I realized something about myself this weekend. I don’t know if I like people as much as I should. It’s a weird thing to think or to say. But…people just bug me. Not on like an all the time basis but like everyone just has their quirks.
Like I just got back from a weekend trip with friends and I was thinking about this.
I don’t quite know what to do about it. I’m not great at just letting it go. But I also know it’s not worth bringing up. It’s just individual personalities and most people are still fun to be around.
I think part of the problem is that sometimes I can’t explain why someone’s behavior irritates me.
Like…one friend is just…I feel like he’s a know it all. No matter what topic comes up he seems to know and understand it. Sometimes I feel like he’s bragging but then I realize he’s just smart. Over the weekend we were making some plans and I felt kind of dumb bc i didn’t realize something that was obvious to him. I don’t think he was trying to make me feel that way though.
I used to date someone who never let little stuff bother them. I felt like a jerk if I pointed out someone’s annoying habits to him. And then someone else I dated was the opposite- he would pick people apart (not to their face).
I guess I don’t really like this trait of mine. Im certainly not perfect. I wish I didn’t let stuff like this bother me.
Anyone else just get easily irritated by other people’s personality quirks?
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