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Last week I was lucky enough to dance and kiss with a girl in a bar. She was there with a friend and so was I. Her friend gave me the seal of approval by saying how much she liked me and taking some photos of her friend kissing me on the cheek. Naturally I got that girlâs number, but I texted her the same night to ask if she got home ok. She didnât reply for one day. Two days later I sent her a follow up: something silly about the photos her friend took of us. I donât usually do this, so I thought there was a connection, but clearly I was wrong. She recently replied saying sheâs not looking for anything (code for âpiss offâ?), which made me confused. Did I fuck up by texting too soon?
she may have been drunk and changed her mind about it all...
I think texting night of/morning after is the right time. the whole "wait two business days" thing is really weird to me.. especially considering how often we are on our phones (esp for me... I'm always on my cell)
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yeah a casual invite should be fine. I wouldn't expect much though... she seems disinterested... but i have a rule of thumb that if someone doesn't reply after a day they're Not for me or Not into me... I like quick communication.