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How do you decide if you want a second date or not?
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I wanted to ask here because I’ve gotten good dating advice before here and because the dating subs tend to give odd advice. Plus I wanted a woman’s perspective to help me gauge how she might be feeling as our dating progresses.

Long story short is I went on my first ever first date last night. It’s late in life for such a milestone, I’m 27.

The date went pretty well, I probably wasn’t the perfect gentleman but I was polite and the conversation was good all night. I realized during I had no idea how to end it and it ended up going for like 3-4 hours.

She seemed very into me or else very nervous/excited to be on the date. But I’m not sure how I feel about dating her. I wouldn’t want to lead anyone on so I don’t know how to choose if/when to ask her out again.

Glad I finally have one under my belt but I don’t think I fully thought about how I’d proceed after or more importantly how I wouldn’t proceed if I decided that.

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am I very attracted to them physically?

can I see myself wanting to hang out with them again?

If yes to both, second date it is (I'll suggest it, that is). if no to either one of them, hard pass.

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