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How common is it for women to change their mind about wanting kids?
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I'm 23 and may have to get surgery on my uterus due to constant bleeding. Technically I wouldn't not be able to have kids but it would be dangerous. I've never wanted kids and since my health problems have had literal years to think this over. I don't have anyone in my real life to talk to about this since my parents can't even fathom a woman not having kids. I see people saying they don't regret it yet I also see so many people saying they never wanted kids in their 20's but once they hit 30 and met the right person everything changed. But I also don't want to get married either. Anyway I feel sure about my feelings but I don't want to make the wrong decision.

I've always figured if I changed my mind I would foster because I don't want to physically give birth. Idk I feel so confused. I know what I want but people in my life say I'll feel different when I'm older. And then I see people on here saying the same thing and I want to ask others older then me their experience.

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You can always save your eggs I believe.. use a surrogate. or adopt.

I've personally changed my mind like 3-4 times.

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