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with looks aside and zero emphasis on aestheticsā¦ How do I bring up that Iād like to cover her cosmetic dental work PRIOR to proposing and our wedding? Without giving her a complex or changing how she thinks I view her as is (which is perfect)
Background: My girlfriend (23F) and I (28M) have been dating for a few years. Things keep getting better and the outlook is great. We established a timeline during college and will soon be ready to take the next step. With that level of confidence in mind, we have been saving and preparing physically and financially for a wedding ceremony. Sheās mentioned a few times that, āwedding pictures are the most important pictures we will ever take together and [she] wants to look the absolute best [she] ever will.ā She canāt afford cosmetic work but I can and know she would want it now rather than later. She is a recovering nail biter and doesnāt have the best dental genetics. She flosses and brushes 2x a day but her dad lost all of his teeth d/t poor hygiene/smoking/genetics before 50. Her family couldnāt afford braces growing up and her bottom row are all misaligned. She has a significant overbite. From what I know about teeth, sheās really at risk for losing them in the future due to crowding/damage and that REALLY worries me. Idk why, but it does.
Yes, I understand marriage is more than how we look and sheās not so superficial as to ever even mention her teeth besides jokes about them falling out one day. Even with no teeth, Iād take her every day!
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