I'm a woman, I just don't get this, though. My size relative to the size of my partners has never been a concern to me. Yet I repeatedly see women who say they want to "feel tiny" compared to their boyfriend or "wear heels and still feel smaller" than their man. I honestly don't understand you're relative size has to do with your sexual attraction to any given man.

I personally have always simply desired to be larger, stronger, and more athletic than I am (unfortunately my annoying female growth hormones won't allow me to get to where I would really like to be in regards to strength and stature). So the idea of actively wanting to be tiny is really just super alien to me.

Personal opinions and evolutionary psychology theories are both very welcome. I've asked redditors about this before, but I couldn't really gain any deeper understanding of the issue past "that's just what I find attractive".