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What are your thoughts on being the breadwinner and having your spouse/partner being a SAHP?
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For those who don’t know what I’m referring to with that abbreviation, I’m talking about Stay at Home Partners/Parents.

I’m mostly going into this with the assumption that your partner did all of the housework, to include laundry, dishes, cooking (including preparing meals/lunchboxes for you and any kids you may have), cleaning, repairs, and if there are kids, got them ready for school/daycare/the day, took them where they needed to be, got them to bed, etc. competently.

I feel like if that isn’t the assumption for this, just about every response would end up saying that it depends on the partner, and if they’d be competent and doing things, or staying at home relaxing, if it wasn’t outright an outright no. Also, of course, any of those things you’d have the time for and would want to do you COULD, it’s just that you’d be able to rely on them to do it.

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nope. i will not have this dynamic. we either both work or there is no we

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