So me and my gf (26/25) have been together longer than 3 years. I have always been interested in swinging ffm, mfmf, or even mfm. l've had a mfm with another couple a while back and enjoyed it so much.

Only once have my gf and I had a threesome encounter and it was her and some girl we knew at a party. After couple drinks my gf asked me to go over & kiss this girl and touch her (we both knew she was attracted to me) so I did and we kissed while she was getting a drink. After my gf asked her if she wanted to see her give me head. Long story short they were both sucking me off and I was sucking on their titties. Best night ever. Since then we haven't had any experiences.

I have the huge urge to try to have similar experiences whether it ffm, mfmt, or even mm. We've talked about it briefly during foreplay and she seems like she's into it & gets wet and turned on, But when it comes down taking it a little step further she seems to be put off by it. She welcomed a mfm which is fine but l'm not sure how to get that done.

She's not a fan of hard swapping myself with another female, only soft swap with a couple or female but my urge to try this lifestyle is like an all time high Imao. Just wondering if there's something I can do ? Or a way to tell/show her this is something I would want to try.. any suggestion: