I just developed this idea over my lunch, so please be patient with me.

My older brother married a wonderful woman. since they have been married she has been like the older sister I never had. She is 2 yrs older than me and i consider her my closest friend after my husband. She is the only person in my family that is aware of the open relationship that I have with my husband and some of the adventures I have had in exploration of my own sexuality and sexual self.

roughly 3 yrs ago my brother was sadly killed in an auto accident, leaving my Sister in Law a widow. I have stayed in very close contact with her sine that time, either calling her, texting her or facetiming with here nearly every day.

One thing she has confided to me is that she misses being intimate with my brother, and the feel and pleasure of having sex. She has not begun to date as she does not feel ready to replace her lost husband. And because she lives in a smaller community, where everyone knows everyone, she dare not meet up with someone for fear it will get back to the family or people she knows from church (her main social circle)

She and he two Daughters will be coming to the US to visit us during the Christmas holidays. I know that she finds my husband attractive and he has said that he finds her also cute. I came to the idea of offering her a night or more while she is with us, to be with my husband and help her to meet her womanly needs. I would still need to approach my husband first to see if he would be willing, I don't know if he is, but i think I could persuade him. and i do not know if she would even accept the offer.

But I wanted to voice this idea out to see what the opinionated masses of Reddit think. If my husband is willing to help out, should offer him to my best friend who is my Sister in Law?