Me and my fiancee are very sexually active and we've got some wild stories. Where's a good place I can go, either irl or on the internet (other than the various subreddits that are designed for that) where I could find a women to yap with about our sexual escapades on a semi regular basis. Like one night she could tell me about a new kink she's never tried before and the next morning I could recount how I came in my lady and then made her breakfast in bed.

Honestly I'd prefer to talk to a real life person, but the allure and confidentiality of a stranger is always nice. I don't want to become a swinger mind you, if there's any risk that this person would start being in my stories instead of just talking about them with me, that's a big no no

Any suggestions?