Hey Redditors M here who is in a long term relationship with a super active and adventurous sex life together , however there is a catch to it . My partner can only reach orgasm via clitoris stimulation and not penetration , and although i always make sure to make her cum atleast 2-3 times before myself but it still bothers me the fact that i cant make her cum via penetration and comparing it to my past experiences with other women who were having it so easy and fast after just a few strokes. I also communicated this with my partner and asked about her sensations and her response was that during the penetration she can only feel the penetration at the labia and then nothing but a strange feeling mixed with pain considering that i am a pretty girthy guy. I wanted to know if you had any similar experiences or suggestions?