So i posted here this morning asking if i was wrong for expecting intimacy ( to be clear, a hug, a kiss good night, and yea if possible sex. Any intimacy and affection really ) from my wife after taking her to Paris.

So it turned out I was wrong according to the people of reddit. Fair play looks like iv got some work to do in regarding my expectations.

So my next question is, what do women want.

My wife, in my opinion, has the life most women dream about. A 15 year relationship, 9 of them married, 2 beautiful healthy children, big house, 3 cars, holidays through out the year, all bills paid for by myself ( she pays for the food shopping ). When I say all I mean all, phone, insurance, tax etc etc. House work done ( apparently from making the bed in the monrkng. It's pointless to me lol ) 100% faithfull, great friends and family. I actually listen and wait for her to stop talking before I give her my opinions and console her.

So I'm obviously missing some thing and I want to be 100%. In normal life we're intimate once every 1-2 weeks. Now I'll be honest, I put just as much work into her in the bedroom. Might be a bit TMI but she gets all the foreplay. BJ's in our house are a birthday and Christmas thing, too which I am owed the last 2. Iv asked if there's anything she wants to try in the bedroom. So I can't be lacking there.

What in the actually fuck am I doing wrong !?? What do women want ? What do we have to do ? Help me please 🙏