MY NOW-WIFE'S JOURNEY TO EMBRACE HER LABIA'S APPEARANCE

BACKSTORY When I first started dating my now-wife back in the summer of 2009, we were both in our early 20s—athletes finishing up with college and getting ready for graduate school. About a year before meeting me, she had ended a difficult long-term relationship. She made it clear from the start that she wasn’t looking for something casual with me. She wanted to build a real connection before taking the next step—having sex.

The short story you’re about to read took place during that first year of our relationship. I have another set of stories to share that happen later on, further into the relationship. Let’s see if you all enjoy the start, and we’ll go from there.

START OF THE JOURNEY As mentioned above, when I first started dating my now-wife back in summer of 2009, we were both in our early 20s, hot and young and we still didn't have our own place. After a few weeks of dating, I asked her to meet me at a romantic beachside bar/restaurant. It was a hot summer night and when she walked in, she was wearing a halter top shirt and a denim mini skirt that had my full attention. We were seated at a table by the balcony, and I went to the bar to grab our drinks. When I returned, she crossed her legs in a way that gave me an unexpected but unforgettable view.  

The lighting wasn’t great, but I could tell she either had on a skin-tone thong—or nothing at all. Keeping my composure after that was difficult, but since it was like our third date, I didn’t want to come across as desperate by staring too long.  

When we finished our drinks, she leaned in and asked me, with a sensual tone, “Did you notice something?”. That was my “aha” moment: she wasn’t wearing anything!  

I told her how incredibly sexy that was and how much it turned me on. She smiled, clearly enjoying my reaction, and became even more playful. She adjusted her chair so that every time she crossed her legs, I got an even better view. That was the first time I got a look at her p**sy, and I was mesmerized.  

While we continued talking, she asked me if I liked what I saw. I told her, “Yes, I love it!” She then asked if I liked the way her p**sy 'looked', and I reassured her that it looked great.  

She hesitated before saying she had always been self-conscious about her 'lips' size (labia). She mentioned that her previous partners didn't basically go down on her or give much attention to her p**sy, and she assumed it was because her 'lips' appeared larger than those typically seen in porn videos.  

I responded honestly, telling her how much I liked what I was seeing and that I couldn’t wait to have her p**sy in my mouth. She still seemed unsure, suggesting I might just be saying that because I wanted to have sex with her.  

I then said to her, “Its true I want to have sex with you, but I’m being completely honest about how beautiful your p**sy is. I can even assure you that my friends, if they saw your p**sy, would say the exact same thing.” She playfully laughed and asked how I could be so sure?  

I said, “We’ve been friends since forever and we talk about this stuff. Trust me, they’d all be envious of me if they saw.” She seemed even more intrigued when I added, “I can prove it if you want—when we see them tomorrow, I’ll discreetly show them a photo of your p**sy.”  

To my surprise, she loved the idea and opened her legs under the table, letting me snap a photo on my phone. (It was 2009, so the resolution wasn’t great on the I*hone, but the photo looked amazing.)  

The next day, while we were hanging out with my friends, she stayed close to me throughout the night and when the moment was right, I discreetly showed the guys the photo. Their reactions were exactly what I hoped for: "oh wow, that is a fine looking p**sy; you are so lucky; would love to see much more". She 'overheard' their comments and whispered in my ear, “Thank you so much for that.” That night, we had sex for the first time, and she said that her confidence had gone way up after listening to other guys talking about her p**sy.

FAST FORWARD A FEW MONTHS... As much as that night boosted her self-esteem, her insecurities didn’t vanish overnight. During that first year of our relationship, she’d still occasionally compare herself to those unreal porn standards, especially when we watched porn videos together.  

To help her embrace her beauty, I encouraged her to tease me in public like she did on ‘that date'. For example, when we went on dinner dates, she’d occasionally wear skirts or dresses without panties, knowing it turned me on and made her feel empowered. When at the beach by ourselves, I suggested she wear thong bottoms with thin fabric to help her feel more comfortable with the display of her 'lips', even when she felt shy about showing some “cameltoe.”  

After a few of those dates and trips to the beach, I noticed that her confidence about the appearance of her labia had improved. SO MUCH SO that she began making 'risky' choices entirely on her own. On a few occasions, when we went out with my group of friends, she chose to wear short dresses or mini skirts with no panties. She got a kick out of watching how some of my friends secretly tried to catch a glimpse of her p**sy whenever she sat or stood up. She always managed to do it in a way that wasn’t obvious to others—especially their girlfriends—so it never seemed like she was intentionally displaying herself. I have to say, I loved seeing how confident she became in those moments. It was empowering for her, playful for us, and it always made our sex even better afterward. 

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In Part 2, I’ll share some of the most memorable moments from those first couple of years of our relationship, including daring public displays and playful teasing that brought us even closer together.