I've heard a good amount of women say they don't like porn because it's cheating or degrading or something along those lines. I have also heard some say they don't like their man jerking off without them at all. I know that's not every woman but just what I've dealt with or heard.

So my question is what if you just found your mans pocket pussy or even if he told you had one how would you feel? I've had a girl I was sexting with get upset that I was using that instead of my hand. But she was using a vibrator as well so what's the difference in toys?

Really I just don't want my girl, if I get one lol, to either be grossed out by it or stop talking to me if she found out about it. Should I mention it when things start getting more deep or should I just get rid of it?