I get it. A lot of people hide behind calling it a "link" and what not. But overall I think the general notion is that cheating is bad. And yet sometimes those urges just come and you probably can't help it. The reason why I am asking this is cause I have a gf and I love her to the core. But I know she isn't the type to go for an open relationship and what not. And there are days when I have very strong urge to cheat. I haven't acted on it. And not entirely planning to act on it either. My ideal solution till now has just been to come on reddit and have some fun conversations with random women. But there are days when it doesn't happen. Or when you just feel like what if I were to actually cheat ? And I don't know how to deal with it.