So I've been with my husband for 4 years now married for 1 year. We live with his parents and he has 2 younger brothers it's a pretty big house we live in we have 3 kids together. So just for context I talk to his brothers normally more to his youngest brother the middle brother is very quiet and reserved. This happened Thursday night, his parents were out for dinner and my husband asked me what I was making I told him to go out and buy dinner for us including his younger brother cuz he was home with us so he left to go pick up the food I stayed with the kids and I was washing dishes. His brother (the middle one) comes up to me and says if he can ask me a very personal question but I can't tell nobody. In my head I'm like fuck I kinda knew what he was going to ask. He asked if I can take his virginity he's 27 yrs old and he's tired of being a virgin he doesn't go out cuz he doesn't have money he doesn't have a job he doesn't go out to meet someone (he can't work because of his insurance thing long story). I was in SHOCK!!! I looked away from him continuing to wash dishes and he said it would be no strings attached no feelings involved he just wants to loose his virginity already. I was speechless like I'm his brothers wife why would he even think of asking me! I told him I understand he's well over the age were he should of already lost his virginity but I wouldn't feel comfortable doing it I also told him I'll help him find a girl to go out with I don't have much girl friends but I told him I'm willing to help him find someone. He said it's okay he wanted to ask me about it because he's been thinking about it for a while. In my head I'm like wtf he's been thinking about it!?!?! Like about me!!!( I don't dress inappropriate at home for him to think that way about me) I told him sorry I wouldn't feel comfortable doing it he said okay just if I can't tell nobody about this I told him okay and he left to his room. I'm in shock at this point my stomach turned upside down I felt sick I lost my appetite. I stayed thinking about it and even when my husband got home he saw me really quiet telling me to eat I told him I wasn't hungry and that I felt sick I threw up and constantly going to the bathroom all night I literally felt sick Everytime I think about it replaying in my head of him asking. I told my sister about it we tell each other everything she thinks I shouldn't tell my husband I want too but I know it's going to destroy there family relationship it gives me more reason to move out but it's hard we have been looking for a house and nothing so if I tell him he's going to flip on everyone and ruin family ties which I don't want I'm pretty sure his brother asked Innocently which I understand but me tho?!?! I've been really upset about it but I can't tell my husband. Even if I were to agree with his brother he said no feelings involved but I don't think so especially being a virgin he will catch feelings and what if he wants to keep doing it and tried blackmailing me into doing it again or he will tell my husband. I don't think he's like that cuz he is really nice but him being a virgin I'm pretty sure he will catch feelings at the same time I feel bad for him what if I let him but just in the dark or have him blindfolded so he doesn't see me all? But I wouldn't feel comfortable living there knowing I took his brothers virginity. What should I do? Am I overthinking it? Should I just put it behind me? Should I tell my husband or keep quiet? What if his brother asks me again!?