I never did it but I recently a member of some sexting communities here on reddit, I'm trying to participate and find someone to cum with or just chat, but I'm in a relationship and don't know if it would be cheating or not, she goes to sleep early and most of the time I don't have the chance to provoke or show her how horny I'm. When we meet on the weekend is perfect but her job just like mine is really tiring, i just have more energy, she feels horny just like i do and even went to sleep wet a feel times but didn't have the strength to masturbate, i bought her some toys to help but we didn't had the chance of using them on video call (we sleep on video call every day). That's not a excuse or anything like that it's just the situation makes me wanna jerk off and I'm not a fan of porn, i always liked some personal touch on those moments, even if it's with a stranger. Repeating the question, is it cheating ?