Communication - without strong communication there’s no cornerstone for a relationship to be built on

Honesty - if you can’t be truly open and honest with a partner - about everything - what is the point of having one . No secrets , no fantasies left unsaid , no lies great or small

Open mindedness - in and out of the bedroom a partner needs to have an open mind about exploring and trying new things .

Respect - you may not have the exact same interests or beliefs as me and vice versa but we won’t judge each other or show a lack of respect for each others opinions/ beliefs

High libido - sex and intimacy are crucial to a long term relationship and as crucial as the other 4 things I listed . If sex isn’t a big deal for a partner we definitely aren’t a match .