Okay. Hear me out. I post, for me. I post because I enjoy it. I post because it makes me feel good seeing myself in a less harsh light, which makes me excited to share that.

Now. With that of course, comes the attention, which I don't mind. What I have a problem with is settings and context.

If I post something in a very casual vanilla esque sub that happens to have nudity, and I'm just like "I felt good about this pic today" I don't want, nasty comments and dick pics flooding my dms, it's just gross. It gives me like.... "Giga Chad, drunk frat bro, a maybe could mean yes, I don't care if you're comfortable" vibes and makes me generally wanna barf in their face.

Now if I were to post say a picture of me in my collar and leash, in a subreddit that's dom/sub oriented. Hell yeah, call me a slutty sub. Degrade me. Have your way in your fantasy. Because that's the correct and appropriate time and space to do so. When it's being asked for in an environment that's safe to engage with, but not just cause i posted a random booty pick in a vanilla subreddit.

Thoughts? Opinions? How do you guys feel. What's your line that you don't like crossed?

Okay Edit ; Wild to me the Breeders(Heteros) bein more sexually enlightened and courteous right now. I asked the same question to AskGayBros and WATCHED the down votes come in and my karma drop all because my "Hot Take" is, Be appropriate to the situation.